This is an often time happening, reccurring event, and probably a pretty common theme in halfway houses.
Sometimes, when a lady is faced with either paying their own rent, or taking care of a boyfriend/father of their children who is in jail or prison, often times their decision is to help their man.
It is our belief in our process at Choices Sober Houses to support these women so they can begin to learn how to focus on themselves and love themselves enough. We teach them how to focus on their own responsibilities. We constantly teach that your choices will have either benefits or consequences.
It has to be obvious that the bad choices that they made have put them in the position that they are in. Unless they wanted to face homelessness, they needed to start making better choices for themselves.